Hey!!
So I am writing this as a divergence to this treacherous paper I have to finish. Which does not say that the message therein is any less important.
As i ruminated (as my French prof likes to stress
ruminer le texte!) on the subject of self-love, i gradually understood its active and
quotidienne (daily
) meaning. Loving yourself is a feeling that comes from the individual, as opposed to his surroundings. However, and i believe most importantly, it is the way you treat yourself on a daily basis.
Think about it, when you make a mistake, do you say something like "How could i be so stupid?". When you eat, do you make the right food choices or impose your body to the sacrilege of cookies and ice cream everyday? Do you
take the time to really take care of yourself?
I feel like
taking care of yourself physically (exercise, food), emotionally (don't chastise, constructive criticism), financially (saving), and/or spiritually (why are we here) is the true reflection of loving oneself.
If, like me, you:
-stay up late on all/most days, and when i say
late its not an overstatement
-live on a diet of chocolate, confectionnery, coffee and nothing much else because cooking is just too much trouble
-avoid the subject of spirituality because it raises more questions than unswers
-don't save for a rainy day
-insert other bad habits here
Fear not! Firstly, it takes a month to make/break a habit.
Secondly, this is a definite sign that you should take more time with yourself. One thing i know for sure is that
not knowing yourself, not knowing who you are is a recipe for unhappiness. For what is man's main preoccupation in life, if not finding happiness? Take time to give your body rest each day, to exercise, to cook, to read the [insert religious book]. Take the time to love yourself enough to bother yourself!
Gosh!! I sound like something out of O-magazine! If you think this is all bullocks, so be it. I personally believe that the happier, more self-assured person is one who knows what they are made of. It's the difference between fashion and style, you can dress fashionably with no sense of style! Because style comes from the individual, from knowing who you are, from essentially self love.
Adios!